ISTPs love to fix things, and may create problems in their personal relationships, just so that they can have the fun of fixing them. Overall, they are wanting trust, shared values, commitment, and good listening skills in a relationship. Do I invite him to specific events like schedule a cook-out or something? This way, if it happens again, you'll be able to give us examples of what we're doing so we can fix it. People of the following types present the most potential for personality clash and conflict with the ISTP, but also the best opportunities for growth. Keep your word and be reliable.
Originally Posted by Slacker Mom.
21 Signs You’re an ISTP, the Most Mechanically-Inclined Personality Type
Now check your email to confirm your subscription. But then the next few times I saw him he hardly talked to me and I'm kind of surprised we got through those few dates or whatever they were. Originally Posted by Slacker Mom. Lastly, ISTJs usually like to start off their relationships at a slow and comfortable pace. Not to rain on your parade [sorry, INTP], but these seem like things that would work on anybody. You are an independent soul and you find it difficult not only to open up to others but also to give in and share your personal space.